fix: 荷官端卡住根因修复 — endBet防抖+状态同步+WaybillRemind越界

1. end_bet_error翻译从'停止成功'改为'已停止下注'（误导荷官以为操作成功）
2. endBet()加2秒防抖，防止连按Enter导致重复请求
3. Numpad 0加状态守卫，只在bet_status=1时才调endBet
4. endBet失败时前端自动同步服务端bet_status，不再弹错误框
5. 后端end_bet_error响应附带当前bet_status供前端同步
6. WaybillRemindService路子珠pattern检测加try-catch，消除每日59次offset -1错误

app/models/process/NumberTab.php

@@ -136,7 +136,7 @@ class NumberTab extends BaseModel
     {
         $numberTabInfo = self::get(['id' => $numberTabId]);
         if (!$numberTabInfo) return ['status' => false, 'msg' => 'end_bet_fail'];
-        if ($numberTabInfo['bet_status'] != 1) return ['status' => false, 'msg' => 'end_bet_error'];
+        if ($numberTabInfo['bet_status'] != 1) return ['status' => false, 'msg' => 'end_bet_error', 'bet_status' => $numberTabInfo['bet_status']];
         self::where(['id' => $numberTabInfo['id']])->update(['bet_status' => 2, 'bet_end_time' => time()]);
         $numberTabInfo['bet_status'] = 2;
         $numberTabInfo['bet_start_time'] = time();