fix: 荷官端卡住根因修复 — endBet防抖+状态同步+WaybillRemind越界

1. end_bet_error翻译从'停止成功'改为'已停止下注'（误导荷官以为操作成功）
2. endBet()加2秒防抖，防止连按Enter导致重复请求
3. Numpad 0加状态守卫，只在bet_status=1时才调endBet
4. endBet失败时前端自动同步服务端bet_status，不再弹错误框
5. 后端end_bet_error响应附带当前bet_status供前端同步
6. WaybillRemindService路子珠pattern检测加try-catch，消除每日59次offset -1错误

app/services/waybill/WaybillRemindService.php

@@ -99,6 +99,7 @@ class WaybillRemindService{
             }
         }
         $bigRoad_lenth = count($bigRoadLocation);
+        try {
         if($bigRoad_lenth >= 4){
             //y=1
             if($bigRoadLocation[$bigRoad_lenth-1]['show_y'] == 1){
@@ -616,6 +617,9 @@ class WaybillRemindService{
                 }
             }
         }
+        } catch (\Throwable $e) {
+            // 路子珠数据不足时跳过 pattern 检测
+        }
         $table = WaybillRemind::where('table_id',$table_id)->find();
         $create_time = time();
         $bigRoadLocation = json_encode($bigRoadLocation);